From bollywood to Spirituality If any word that is used in common, is Love!
Love used by so many different people in so many different ways.
Affection, devotion, closeness,warmth what is it exactly?
The most overated yet the most valued feeling, Love.
Love is a free feeling.
It is disinhibiting & uplifting.
Love is in liberty, in setting free, in happily seeing someone grow beyond the boundaries you would’ve created or imagined for them.
I have firmly believed in the firm dichotomies of love & attachement.
I love many, i am attached to none.
They both should never be confused.
Attachement breaks you & the person you love. It makes you look exceptionally beautiful,
But it’ll kill your spine.
I feel the hungrier your ego is the more attachement it will display.
The more secure it is, the more capable of loving it’ll be.
We’re constantly looking for new things to love, new songs, new movies, new books, new show, new restaurants. We love to love we just can’t stop looking. Sometimes we are lucky enough to find a good person, sometimes me bump into a terrible one’s, we fall we get up we start over. But it’s alright. It’s fun every bit of it
I strongly believe that love is not magical. When you find the right person there won’t be butterflies, or you heart pumping more blood than it’s supposed to. instead it will be as if you’ve come home, and so there won’t be any need to do a song and dance about it. They won’t sweep you off your feet, there’ll just be love, happiness and peace, you’ve come back home..
I so believe that you won’t find that before you find yourself. When you’re at your best place, mentally, spiritually, socially, then there they’ll be across the hall, reading your favourite book, sipping tea, or gazing at your favourite painting.
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It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression you are likely to experience in your life. Love & affection are probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don’t love themselves and they do not feel loved by others as well. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love.
What are the odds (7 billion to 1 person).
Or else if you are lucky enough, how do you recognise them? Is it the way a strand of her hair hangs on one side of her face or the way she puts it back on the back of her ear. Or the way her hair is all messed up giving a glance of the inevitable ageing process that might commence someday with you by her side.
Is it the way she pronounces ‘love’ or ‘friendship’ for that matter, or is it the way that cute little affectation of hers makes a way to your hurtful heart.
How are you sure that she is the one or should I say 7 billion to one?
Our life is brief. Literally a blink. One day here, the next isn’t promised. But we have always known of this. Always reminded of this. But we don’t realize it untill someone close to us gets parted. It is then we realize the meaning of love even more.
So love as much as you can.
Be warm, be giving. Care for people you love,
Sometimes It is okay to tell people how you feel about them no what how flattering or uncomplimentary it is
Love is not an excuse to hold or grab, or to own or to barter.
It’s the only excuse you’ll ever find to call yourself special.
So love as much as you can.
Love the people. Love the world around you.
Love big cities & mountains.
Love birds & Animals.
Love your family. Love your friends.
Love your enemies. Love your Dreams.
But most importantly love yoursen in lf!
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